Since 2013, Flash You and Me cultivates a free and modern vision of a. Born in Riga, Latvia, the brand was founded by Līva Šteina, a stylist with a passion for design, materials and the way lingerie transforms attitude. Her ambition: to offer pieces that accompany women as they explore their sensuality, without ever sacrificing comfort or style.
The world of Flash You and Me is profoundly influenced by bondagerevisited with a contemporary, fashionable eye. It's not gratuitous provocation, but a way of expressing power, seduction and freedom. Visit harnesss, the dresses and the open lingerie are part of a subtly fetish aesthetic, designed for everyday wear as well as more private moments.
Spinal Bondage Harness - Limited edition gift boxed - FLASH YOU AND ME
Created for the 10th anniversary of Flash You and Me, this iconic harness is part of a exclusive set sold at Brigade Mondaine, featuring a transparent dress, necklace and Spinal harness. Presented at the brand's book launch event, it has since been redesigned and perfected to join the permanent collection.
The design of this full-body harness features intricate work on the back, inspired by the spine. Gold-ring detailing, adjustable straps and multiple fastenings enable a bespoke construction that emphasizes the waist and structures the silhouette. Straps can be attached to the dress or worn independently.
The lower part is removable. Two finishes are supplied:
- a pair of oversized gold rings,
- a pair of straps for suspenders or stockings (garter not included)
Wear over a sheer dress, a lingerie ensemble or next to the skin. A sculptural, modular pieceThe perfect way to create your own combination.
Wear with or without nippies.
One size fits all : fits sizes 34/36 to 40/42 (FR)
Composition: European rubber band, gold-plated metal finish
Interview: machine wash in net, delicate cycle
Handcrafted in Latvia
Brigade Mondaine is proud to distribute Flash You and Me from its selection. A erotic underwear designed for those who like to combine finesse, sensuality and freedom.
Available online with international delivery, and in our Parisian boutique in the 5th arrondissement.

























